My 2-year-old starts daycare next week, and I’m super nervous. It’s the first time I’ll be leaving her in a place without me, and I don’t know how she’s going to react. How did your little ones handle their first day? Did they cry a lot? What did you do to make the transition easier? Any advice would really help!
Jennifer, I totally understand how you feel! My daughter cried the first few days, but something that helped was bringing a small comfort item, like her favorite stuffed animal. It made the separation a little easier. Also, try not to linger during drop-off, it sounds harsh, but the quicker you say goodbye, the faster they tend to adjust. The first few days are tough, but they do get used to it. Stay strong!
One thing that worked wonders for us was building a “goodbye routine.” We made up a little song that we would sing at drop-off, and it became something my son looked forward to. It gave him something familiar and comforting to focus on. Another tip: Talk about daycare in a positive way at home before she starts. Let her know how fun it will be, how she’ll make friends, and how you’ll be back to pick her up after her fun day. Prepping her mentally for it helped make the first few days smoother.
Oh, I remember that feeling all too well. My son also started daycare at 2, and I was a nervous wreck! He cried for the first week, and honestly, so did I after dropping him off. Just know that it’s totally normal, and it’s okay to feel anxious. Hang in there; you’re both going to get through it!
THX you all for the advice! I’ll definitely try the quick drop-off and the idea of a goodbye routine sounds like something my daughter might enjoy. I’m already talking about daycare like it’s going to be the most exciting adventure, so I hope that helps too. I guess we’ll see how it goes next week. Thanks again, it helps to know I’m not alone in this! 