I know I can’t keep him isolated from everything, but I don’t want him to spend hours glued to the screen either.
I’ve been learning about how to regulate cell phone use, because I want to do it right from the start. For example, I like the idea of establishing clear schedules: that he uses it only after finishing homework or on weekends for a limited time. I also want to activate parental controls and teach him how to surf safely. And of course, be an example; if I ask him to put down his cell phone, I must do it too.
It’s a challenge because I want him to feel part of his generation, but without neglecting his mental health or his habits. I think that starting with clear rules and talking to him about the “whys” is key. This thing about raising children in the digital age is not easy, but the important thing is to learn together.
You’re speaking my language. My daughter begged for one at 7, and we decided to wait a year. We started with a super basic phone that could only call or text us. It’s helped her feel included without diving into the smartphone world just yet
Omg, yes! My son got his first phone at 8, and it was such a mixed bag. I felt like I was constantly googling ‘how much screen time is okay?!’ You’re not alone in trying to figure this out. It’s such a balancing act
Lol, my kid got their first phone and immediately lost it under their bed for two weeks. Guess that’s one way to limit screen time!
It’s overwhelming, right? I’ve got a 9 year old, and it feels like there’s no right answer. Sometimes I’m like, ‘No phone until college!’ But then all their friends have one, and you don’t want them to feel left out. Ugh.
You’re already ahead by thinking this through! Setting boundaries early will make all the difference. It might feel overwhelming now, but it gets easier with practice, promise!
Same boat here! I’m wondering, do you think it’s better to give a phone now and teach them, or wait and risk them feeling out of the loop? I’d love to hear how you’re planning to start the conversation