So, my son is getting older and has started asking questions about intimacy. You know, like “How do people kiss?” and “Why do couples hold hands?”. �� I want to be honest and open with him, but I also don’t want to overwhelm him with too much info at once. I have no idea where to start or how to keep it age-appropriate! Has anyone else gone through this? How did you explain things to your kids without it being too awkward or too much? I need help!!
Totally been there! What worked for us was starting with simple, non-detailed answers. Like, when my son asked about kissing, I just said, “That’s something people do when they love each other.” It was enough to satisfy his curiosity without going into the whole birds and bees talk yet. Keep it light and don’t feel like you have to explain everything at once. ��
I’ve got two boys and they started asking similar questions around that age too. I found using books helped A LOT. There are some really great ones out there that explain things in an age-appropriate way without making it weird for either of you. That way, if you’re unsure what to say, the book kind of guides the convo for you.
Thanks I’ll definitely look into some books! That sounds like a great way to get started without it feeling like a huge deal I guess I’m worried about saying too much or making him uncomfortable. I’ll start with small answers like you said Hopefully that’ll make things easier! �
I went through this with my daughter last year I just focused on keeping the conversation open letting her know she could ask me anything and I wouldn’t get mad or embarrassed that way when she had more questions later, she felt comfortable coming to me lt’s more about setting up a space where they feel safe asking whatever comes to mind.