How do I help my kid find new friends?

Hey everyone! We recently moved and my 7 yer old daughter just started a new school. She’s always struggled with making and keeping friends but this new start has her feeling pretty optimistic (and so am I!. I really want to make sure this transition goes smoothly and that she can build solid friendships. I know she’s excited but I’m hoping to do everything I can to support her without being too pushy. Has anyone been through something similar? Any advice for helping her make new friends or navigating the early days of school? :blush: Thanks in advance!

Aw, it sounds like she’s off to a great start with such a positive outlook! Kids are amazing at picking up on the vibes around them so just keeping her spirits up about school and maybe even sharing your own stories about making new friends can be reassuring. I’ve noticed that when my daughter has a hobby she loves (even if it’s something simple like drawing or sports) she naturally connects with others who share that interest. I’d say keep encouraging her interests, they’re often a bridge to new friendships. Good luck to her! :rainbow::sparkling_heart:

We went through something similar and I know it’s a little nerve wracking! Do you feel like she’s finding kids she clicks with? Sometimes my son would just talk about kids he didn’t really get along with and it was tough knowing how much to intervene. I’d love to hear how you’re approaching it so far…these early friendships can be so hit or miss! :blush:

Ashley, I totally get it! My daughter had a similar transition and she was so nervous at first. What I found was, the best connections sometimes come from activities outside of school, like community events or a dance class, where she might see familiar faces in a different setting. The funny thing is, she met her best friend at a library storytime! Sometimes just being out in the community helps kids feel less isolated in a new place. Fingers crossed for you both!

I feel you, Ashley. We moved when my son was young and it was really tough watching him navigate making friends in a new environment. What helped us was reaching out to other parents and setting up one on one playdates at home or nearby parks. It’s less overwhelming than a group situation and it’s easier for them to form connections in a relaxed setting. Also, don’t worry if things don’t go perfectly right away. Kids are surprisingly resilient, and sometimes, the friendships happen in unexpected ways!