I’m really struggling with teaching my kid empathy. She’s a sweet girl, but lately, it seems like she’s just not getting it. For example, if she accidentally hurts someone, she doesn’t seem to care or understand why she should apologize. I’ve tried talking to her about how others feel, but it feels like I’m talking to a wall. I know empathy is important, and I want her to grow up kind and considerate, but I’m not sure how to get through to her. Any tips? Has anyone else gone through this?
When my son was younger, I felt like I was raising a little robot who couldn’t the dconnectots between his actions and other people’s feelings. What helped was role-playing situations where he could practice empathy. We’d do little skits where I’d pretend to be sad, and he’d have to figure out how to make me feel better. It took a while, but it started to click for him eventually. Hang in there, it’s a tough one but she’ll get it with time.
I think it’s awesome that you’re focused on this! Have you tried using books or shows that emphasize empathy? Sometimes seeing it from a character’s perspective helps it sink in. My daughter loved a series where the main character always thought about how others felt, and I noticed her starting to mirror that behavior. It’s like giving them a little push in the right direction without them realizing it.