I’m 39 weeks pregnant and exhausted. My 2 yearold daughter has been acting out like never before full blown tantrums, meltdowns, you name it. She’s irritable and I barely have the energy to keep up. I feel awful because I know she’s struggling with the changesbut I’m so tired that I don’t even want to play anymore. How do I help her when I can barely help myself? 
Oh Britney, that sounds so tough. I had the same experience when I was pregnant with my second. My oldest became clingy and started acting out too. It’s like they sense the change and don’t know how to process it. Just remember, you’re doing the best you can. Even small moments of connection, like reading a book together, can make a big difference.
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Wow, I feel this. My kid was a total tornado when I was expecting my second. They’re going through so many emotions they can’t explain, and it all comes out as chaos. Sometimes I just cried along with them. You’re not alone in this.
It’s tough now but I promise it gets better! When my second was born, my older one eventually adjusted and even became super helpful. Try not to stress too much, this phase will pass, and soon your daughter will be a proud big sister.
Same! My toddler has been a tiny dictator lately, and I’m 37 weeks. Quick question, how are you managing tantrums? I’ve tried redirecting, but it’s hit or miss. Curious to hear what’s working (or not) for you!
When I was pregnant, I introduced a mommy box with toys and activities my toddler could do independently while I rested. It gave me a bit of breathing room, and she felt special having her own “big girl” tasks. Might be worth a try!
Lol, I swear toddlers have a radar for when you’re about to collapse. My kid once threw a tantrum because his toast was too toasty when I was 38 weeks.
Thanks so much.