I’ve tried to explain to him that it’s time to do other things, like homework or playing outside, but he doesn’t want to listen. I’m worried that these tantrums are a sign of something deeper and that it’s affecting his emotional health. How can I help him manage his emotions and avoid these tantrums? What strategies can I use to teach him to respect boundaries and share? I’m looking for ways to guide him without being too strict or permissive. Does anyone have any suggestions?
I want to find a way to teach my son to control his emotions and not let anger take over. It hurts me to see him like this and I want to help him find a healthier way to express his feelings. I’m willing to try anything to help my son.
I’m going through the same thing with my 9 year old son. He gets so upset when I take away his tablet, and it’s hard to know how to handle it. Have you tried setting clear boundaries and consequences?
My 5 year old son is just starting to assert his independence, and it’s hard to navigate. I feel like I’m walking on eggshells, trying not to trigger a tantrum. I don’t have any advice, but I’m here to listen and offer support.
I’ve been through this with my older kids, and I’ve learned that it’s all about teaching them emotional regulation skills. One thing that worked for us was teaching them deep breathing exercises and encouraging them to express their feelings. We also set clear boundaries and consequences.
I think it’s great that you’re thinking about this, Susan. As a parent, it’s hard to know how to balance giving our kids what they want with teaching them important life skills. For me, it’s been about finding a balance between being firm and being understanding. I’ve also tried to model healthy behavior myself, like taking a deep breath when I’m feeling frustrated.
I’ve been there, done that, and got the t-shirt! As a dad of teenagers, I can tell you that it’s never too early to start teaching your kids about emotional regulation. One thing that worked for us was having open and honest conversations about feelings and expectations. We also encouraged our kids to take responsibility for their actions and to think critically about their choices.
Thanks for your comment, Michael. I think the problem is that it’s not just about saying no and sticking to it. It’s about teaching our kids how to handle their emotions and develop healthy coping skills. For me, it’s about finding a balance between being firm and being understanding, and teaching my son that it’s okay to feel angry, but it’s not okay to throw a tantrum.