I want to take advantage of this stage where he absorbs everything like a sponge, but I don’t want to overwhelm him or make him lose interest.
Post Content: We have tried simple things, like reading stories before bed and playing with blocks to improve his coordination. He also likes to paint with crayons, although he ends up on the table more than on the paper. Sometimes I feel like I don’t know if I am doing enough or if I should include more structured activities like music or English classes for children. Is it better to let him explore at his own pace or plan more formal activities? I just want the best for him and for him to enjoy while learning.
Hi Lindsay, omg I feel you on this! My 5 year old is also super curious, and I’ve worried about the same thing. What’s worked for us is a mix of both, structured and free play. We do storytime and puzzles but also signed up for a local toddler music class once a week. It’s not super formal but introduces them to rhythm and sounds. Letting them explore at their pace is totally fine too. Kids this age thrive when they’re having fun, no matter what they’re doing. Sounds like you’re already doing amazing!
Hey, Lindsay! First off, you’re doing a great job already by being so thoughtful about this! My kid was the same way at 5, a little sponge. One thing that really helped us was introducing a daily “theme activity.” For example, Monday was art day (crayons, washable paints), Tuesday was science day (mixing baking soda and vinegar, looking at bugs), Wednesday was a library trip for new books, etc. This gave structure but kept it fun and varied. Also, if you’re thinking about classes, look for ones that emphasize play, based learning. It’s amazing how much they absorb when they’re just having a blast. You’ve got this!
My son used to color everything But the paper too! lol, I finally just got a giant roll of craft paper and taped it to the table. Now he can color all over it, and it’s so much easier to clean. Don’t stress too much about being “enough.” Sometimes the simplest activities, like a nature walk or building towers, are the most impactful. You’re giving him time and love, and that’s what counts most.
I totally get where you’re coming from, Lindsay. It’s so hard not to second-guess ourselves as moms. When my daughter was 5, I worried I wasn’t doing enough too. But I noticed that when I gave her space to lead her play, she’d create her own “learning.” One day, she made up a game matching socks by color and size. Who knew laundry could be educational?! Sometimes we underestimate how much kids learn just by exploring the world around them
You’re doing an awesome job. Just the fact that you’re asking these questions means you’re a great mom. Keep trusting your instincts!
Lindsay, I’ve been through this stage, and I’ll tell you what worked wonders for us: rotating toys and activities. Kids get bored quickly, so keeping some toys “hidden” and swapping them out every few weeks kept things fresh and exciting. For structured activities, I’d recommend looking into simple science kits for kids, they’re hands-on and fun. Also, music can be amazing at this age. Even just singing silly songs with him or letting him bang on pots and pans can develop rhythm and coordination. At the end of the day, it’s about balance, and you’re already on the right path!
my kids are older now, but when they were 5, I had similar concerns. One thing I learned is that kids thrive on experiences more than “formal” lessons. We focused on outings to the park, museums, and even grocery stores (where they helped “read” labels or count apples). At this age, learning happens in everyday life. Also, it’s okay to experiment with classes and see what sticks, you’ll find out what he loves and what doesn’t work. Just remember, there’s no “perfect” way. You’re doing enough just by caring so much!
This is exactly how I feel right now! My daughter is 4, and I’m torn between letting her do her own thing and signing her up for activities. How do you know if they’re ready for something like music or dance classes? I don’t want to overdo it, but I also don’t want her to miss out. What’s your gut telling you?
Haha, the crayon on the table made me laugh because we’ve all been there. One time my son managed to paint the dog’s tail blue. At least it was washable! Honestly, though, kids are little explorers, and they’ll learn through all their “messes.” As long as he’s happy and engaged, you’re doing fine. Maybe invest in a big drop cloth and let the creativity flow!
Hey Lindsay, I’m a SAHM with a 8-year-old and a 6-year-old. Something I’ve found helpful is incorporating learning into everyday routines. For example, when cooking, I’ll let them measure ingredients to sneak in some math. Or during walks, we’ll play “I spy” with colors and shapes. If you want more structure, apps like ABC Mouse or Khan Academy Kids are great for short, engaging activities. But honestly, don’t overthink it. Kids learn so much just by playing and being around you. You’re doing amazing, mama!