As a mom, I sometimes wonder if I’m doing enough to show my 8yo the value of being thankful. With Christmas coming, I want him to appreciate whatever Santa brings, not just ask for more. How do we teach kids to cherish what they have when the world moves so fast?
It’s like you’re in my head! My 7yo is exactly the same. Every birthday or holiday, it feels like they’re already thinking about the next thing before even enjoying what they just got. I started a little ritual where we talk about three things we’re grateful for at bedtime. It’s not perfect, but it helps them reflect a bit. You’re doing great just by thinking about this. 
Ugh, I hear you, Lisa. It’s hard, especially with all the ads, YouTube unboxings, and constant “I want that!” It’s like the world is wired against us. I don’t have answers, but just know you’re not alone in this struggle.
This is something I struggled with too, but there’s hope! One thing that worked for my family was volunteering. We spent an afternoon at a local food bank, and my kiddo got to see firsthand how important it is to help others. After that, they seemed to value their own stuff more. It doesn’t “fix” everything, but it plants a seed. Maybe you could find a similar activity before the holidays?
I wonder about this all the time too. How do you balance it? I mean, we try to talk about gratitude, but it feels like I’m just lecturing. Do you think it’s an age thing, like they just grow into it? I’d love to hear if anyone else has tips for this!
Thanks, everyone! It’s good to know I’m not alone. I love the idea of volunteering, and I think I might start that bedtime gratitude ritual too. The ads and YouTube videos are definitely a huge influence, I feel like I’m fighting against a tidal wave sometimes. I’ll try some of these ideas and report back after the holidays! 