I’m worried if he’s ready or if it’s just me being anxious about “doing the right thing.” He’s already eating some purees, but he still seems to be seeking out the breast for comfort, and I don’t know if that’s bad or normal. Plus, I’m scared that if I stop breastfeeding now, I’ll lose a special bond we have. What if he doesn’t get enough nutrition? I’m trying to find a balance, but I don’t always know if I’m doing it right.
It sounds like you’re doing an amazing job already! Breastfeeding and solids don’t have to be an either, or thing. At this age, solids are often more about exploration and fun, while breastfeeding continues to provide key nutrients and comfort. When I transitioned my twins, I found it helpful to think of solids as an addition, not a replacement. They’ll naturally start to eat more as they’re ready. Also, the bond you’ve built doesn’t depend on breastfeeding alone. It’s in all the little things you do together, and that connection is unbreakable. Trust your instincts, you’ve got this.
Totally get where you’re coming from. It’s so hard to know if you’re making the right call.
Same boat here! My little one is obsessed with breastfeeding for comfort too.
I’ve been struggling with this too. My baby loves solids but still wants to nurse a lot, especially when they’re tired or upset. I’m not sure if it’s okay to keep doing both or if I’m confusing them. How do you know when they’re truly ready to move on?
I’ve been there, and I totally get the anxiety. My little guy was the same way, and I stressed over whether I was pushing him too fast. What worked for us was gradually introducing more solid meals during the day and letting him nurse when he needed comfort, especially at bedtime. Over time, he started relying less on breastfeeding on his own. I also kept reminding myself that breastfeeding isn’t just about nutrition; it’s a source of comfort and connection. That bond doesn’t go away just because you stop breastfeeding. You’ll find new ways to connect, like snuggling during story time or even just playing together. You’re doing great, mama
Thank you all so much for sharing your thoughts and experiences! It’s such a relief to know I’m not the only one feeling this way. I think I’ll try focusing on letting him lead the way a bit more and see how it goes. It’s comforting to hear that the bond won’t just disappear overnight. You’ve all given me a lot to think about and some great ideas to try. I’m so grateful for this community
I worried about this too, but you’d be surprised how adaptable babies are! My toddler was so attached to breastfeeding, and I thought we’d never transition. But once he started loving finger foods and getting into more solid meals, he naturally began nursing less. It was bittersweet but also a reminder that these transitions are part of their growth. You’re giving him exactly what he needs right now, and that’s what matters
You’re not alone in feeling this way. Breastfeeding is such a personal thing, and it’s so tied to emotions for both of you. I weaned my first a little earlier than planned because of pressure, and I regretted it for a while. But my second self weaned, and it felt more natural. I think babies have a way of letting you know when they’re ready. Maybe try following his lead a bit more? It’s not all or nothing, and you’ll find your rhythm
Thank you all so much for sharing your thoughts and experiences! It’s such a relief to know I’m not the only one feeling this way. I think I’ll try focusing on letting him lead the way a bit more and see how it goes. It’s comforting to hear that the bond won’t just disappear overnight. You’ve all given me a lot to think about and some great ideas to try. I’m so grateful for this community.