My 3 year old had finally started using the toilet consistently, and now he’s back to using the vase. I’m trying not to stress but it’s hard not to. We recently moved and started a new daycare. I know the changes overwhelm him. I keep telling myself it’s a phase and try to be patient, but it’s tough not to feel like we’re going backward. Any tips for helping him adjust without putting too much pressure?
I feel you. My son went through the same thing after we moved last year. He was fully potty trained, but the stress of a new environment caused him to regress. It was super frustrating, but after a few weeks of consistent routines and lots of positive reinforcement, he got back on track. Hang in there, you’re doing great even if it doesn’t feel like it.
Regression is super common with big life changes like moving or starting daycare. It can feel like a step back, but it’s just their way of processing stress.
Totally get how hard this is. My daughter went through a similar thing, and I remember feeling so defeated. It helped me to remind myself that setbacks are normal and don’t erase the progress they’ve made. It’s okay to feel stressed, this parenting stuff is no joke. Sending you some virtual hugs. 
When my twins regressed, I legit thought I’d lose my mind. I remember bribing them with stickers, candy, toys. Nothing worked until they suddenly decided the potty was cool again, like, out of nowhere. Toddlers are insane
Daycare transitions are hard. What helped us was setting aside extra one on one time in the evenings, just playing or reading together. Consistency and patience worked for us.
Thanks so much, everyone. It helps to know I’m not alone in this. I’m definitely going to try some of these ideas, especially the positive reinforcement and making time to connect in the evenings. It’s hard not to feel discouraged, but you’ve all reminded me it’s just a phase. Appreciate the support!